Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Welcome to Victim 2 Victor - the space where healing from trauma becomes lived, embodied change.
I’m Anu Verma - trauma-informed coach, podcaster, executive producer, author, and survivor of childhood and relational trauma.
Through my work, I support people who are ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns and start building lives - and love - rooted in safety, self-trust, and confidence.
Inside this podcast and my coaching work, I help you:
• Understand how trauma shapes attraction and relationship dynamics
• Calm your nervous system and rebuild emotional safety
• Break cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, and emotionally unavailable love
• Transform survival patterns into grounded self-leadership
You’ll hear honest conversations, lived stories of healing, and practical tools you can apply in real life - from nervous system regulation and somatic practices to rebuilding self-worth and rewriting your relationship blueprint.
If listening resonates and you’re ready for deeper, personalised support, I work with clients inside my 12-Week Victim 2 Victor Coaching Program, where we heal at the root - not the surface - and create lasting change.
✨ Ways to work with me or explore further:
Book a confidential discovery call:
https://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Explore The Chemistry Trap - a self-reflection tool to spot and break repeating relationship patterns:
https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Connect with me on social media:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/anuvermaV2V
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources:
https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy
You are not broken. You were conditioned - and conditioning can be healed.
You deserve a future that feels calm, connected, and deeply aligned.
Let’s get there together ✨
Victim 2 Victor: Healing Trauma & Building Real Love
Nothing About You Is Broken: Remembering Your Power
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In this episode of the Victim to Victor Podcast, I’m joined by Lauren Pearlingi, an Intuitive Human Design Business Guide, trauma healer, and transformational mentor devoted to helping women reclaim their power after complex trauma.
Through her platform The Mermaid Light, Lauren supports women in moving out of survival mode and into clarity, confidence, and self-trust. Her work blends intuitive guidance, energy healing, nervous-system awareness, and practical Human Design strategy to help women understand their unique energetic blueprint.
Rather than forcing themselves into paths that don’t fit, Lauren helps women build lives and businesses that align with how they are naturally wired. Her approach focuses on safety in the body, embodiment, and sustainable transformation — not quick fixes or spiritual bypassing.
In this conversation, we explore how trauma shapes identity and self-belief, why nervous-system safety is foundational for healing, and how reconnecting with intuition can open the door to purpose, creativity, and authentic success.
Lauren also shares how understanding your Human Design can reduce comparison, support aligned decision-making, and help women step into the unique gifts they’re here to share.
At the heart of Lauren’s message is a powerful reminder: nothing about you is broken- your power is something you remember.
In this episode we explore:
• Moving from survival mode into self-trust
• How trauma impacts identity and nervous-system safety
• Understanding Human Design as an energetic blueprint
• Reconnecting with intuition and inner guidance
• Discovering and sharing your unique gifts
• The difference between hustle-driven success and aligned business
• Practical ways to begin reclaiming personal power
🔗 Connect with Lauren Pearlingi
The Mermaid Light
https://themermaidlight.com
Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/laurenpearlingi
Human Design & mentorship work
https://themermaidlight.com/work-with-me
Connect with me:
Take the diagnostic tool kit to stop repeating patterns in your relationships: https://victim2victor.net/the-chemistry-trap/
Book a call with me: http://calendly.com/v2vhealingjourney
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/victim2victor_anuverma/
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/anuvermav2v
Access all resources: https://linktr.ee/healing.journeyy